She said YES!

This is been a long long time I never posting anything to my Blog, but today I'm too excited to share out, my dearly love is accept my proposal, this is like a dream... let me flashback the movie I dating her to "The Proposal".

I can't get a well sleep, and the proposal stuff been bugged me out like "what should i do?" and "what should i ready?"... a flower? neh, that's too obvious, a proposal ring? YES! that's it!

Initially I visit my sis is for testing out my half-spoiled external HDD but end up I found a good guide for me, so bring her out to let her throw her comments to me. We been walking around just to look for a best price diamond ring, but some is good in quality... some is good in price... but they just don't attracting to my eyes and heart, until then we walked in Diamonds and Platinum, I feel this shop is kinda expensive one, but my sis have helped me to step a forward to get info for me... Byran is the promoter that serve us, he is very professional and well-trained, explaining the diamond in very details and even show us how to identify a good diamond

I really impress with his presentation, but still I'm looking for a good proposal ring, he helped me alot by filter out very fancy and fashion rings and ended up with 2 very nice rings... and I attracted to the one with a little fashion and shining diamond ring... "that's it, the one I looking for", I'm very grad for the help from my sis and Bryan let me to get this very nice ring.

Meanwhile, my dearly love is telling me, she gonna come to the same shopping mall too... my sis and I trying to hide this ring from her, so my sis helped me out and I'm trying not to explode by her

By meeting her awhile, so I with my excuse to fetch my sis home, and I also went home for some rest (finally I can sleep with calm)

After wake up, with the energy flow within me, "I'm going to propose"!
I went to her home after my meal, she are very tired since her long journey back from Ipoh... still I don't wanna let her sleep yet, coz I wanna make my proposal to her with surprise... after twisting my brain very hard, finally I handed out the ring and make my proposal... there's a moment I wanna make us forever

and the answer? I already posted in title :P

我有福相？怎么可能？

最近因为帮了妈妈供车期、而且又买了份存款保单、多次的旅程（回马六甲、去怡保、KL乱走）也耗尽了我很多的资源造成有史以来最夸张的花费量！也就是这样，现在都会很小心的吃饭，同事招去高档的餐厅，我只能说：我不加入，转头去了打包RM3/4的杂饭来吃...不怎么美味至少过得去。自己一个人在家，吃面包挨着过去，一晚就没了。

朋友也很多慢慢的不知道哪里来的默契，一一都无事不登三宝殿，统统都来借钱...真的“无力”面对...不过呢，能帮的则帮而且还要看看他们的为人呢。不信得过的，连一毛都不借！

我真的这么有福相？每个人都来跟我借钱，看来我要开银行了。

EQ失常

今天放工后，妈妈就来电给我说她正在打妹妹请帖的名单，但问题就在名单存档之后全部不见。

我解释了很多次，也解释得不耐烦了... 之后也盖了电话。

我也知道自己有点不对，上车后也回电给妈妈好好的教她如何解决那些问题，如何安全存档，觉得OK后我也安心的回家了。

3小时后，妈妈又来电说我教的和之前完全一样，全部不见了。我也被炸得没话说... 她也说越气、我越说也不耐烦，最后就说：都是我的错，也叫妹妹她自己来打。妈妈也一声不爽的盖我电话，看来我做过火了，今天的我在搞什么？

结果也麻烦妹妹去安慰妈妈，她已经失去了一个完全的丈夫、我不能再让她伤心但我始终还是犯错了。。。
shit!... 我到底在做什么？

Ipoh之旅

就在不久前，亲爱的她和同事去了Ipoh Trip也决定要带我去她的故乡游玩著名的山洞、看看她成长的地方... 真是浪漫的提议，我也同意了。

可没想到时间如此快速地，我们的约定就实现了。

一方面为了和她的舅母庆祝生日，一方面也为了工作的她无法不得向她的舅舅借车；
所以这趟的旅行，我成了司机载着她和她的一家人一同去Kuala Kangsar。（弟弟也因为工作无法加入... 车子也没位了啊！）
经过几小时的车程，我们也到了目的地，大家都喊着：累了！饿了！

等了很久，舅母才回到家... 我们才一同去吃饭；我们饭后，洗澡后也为舅母唱生日歌、切蛋糕。（舅母给我一点霸道的感觉... 但也很亲切好笑）
真的很失魂！我竟然拿了相机却忘了带电池... 也把她气得在跳，妈妈也多加了句: 看你能顶他多久... 果然是不见血的针... 没办法确实是我的失误，也只能多加练我的细心了。

隔天，我们也起了床... 爸爸也不声的溜了（去了怡保的富山定位吃点心），但不知情的她却很生气爸爸和姐姐不说一声就跑了。（我也尽量要她冷静却又怕被她一同给生气了... 也许我因为不细心所造成的吧）就连她的可爱表弟阿正也跟着我们一同去怡保吃点心。

没想到当年和学院友人一同吃点心的富山已经搬了... 而且还是5间店面组合而成的堂皇的点心楼。虽然已经忘记了当年那些点心的滋味，但忘不了那人山人海的场景。我们也吃得很饱，但不好意思的是一位爸爸的友人请了我们大家吃点心...（似成相似的陌生人... 但也觉得是个很豪爽的人）

点心后，我们也把阿正送回舅舅的车子，而她也打包了很滑的豆腐花给了我和她妈妈吃。（还真的很滑！好吃！）
我的车子也给了她驾，让她带着我看看她成长的城镇、就读过的圣母学校（还真像马六甲圣母的建筑风格）、游看她小时候顽皮在外娱乐的场所、小时候住过的家园（很小和更小时候的家园，可惜我已经忘了我曾经住在Bukit Beruang的旧家）、小时候玩伴好友的家、避暑静心的极乐洞、婆婆爷爷居住在的三宝洞（可惜关门了，无法拜祭她的先人）、一起爬高爬低的看看风景、拜拜请求神灵保佑我们、去shopping购买鞋裤、帮友人购买盐烹鸡、打包正宗Old Town白咖啡、回家途中在Bidor雨天吃着好吃的鸭腿面、购买鸡仔饼。

就这样我们一天很累又多节目的怡保之旅也到此为止，再过两个星期她将去Batu Pahat工作，之后才回到Kuala Kangsar接在舅舅那里暂住的妈妈（也许为了考验家里的所有人），我也将陪她一同去接妈妈回家，也再一次来个怡保之旅... 毕竟还有些地方我们还没去呢。

不过能她也答应了将和我一同去马六甲，我也必定会尽量给她有个难忘的马六甲之旅。:P

Feeling...

For some reason, I getting tired from my family happening lately and so as I want to cheer everyone around me to be happy and without worries especially her, my dearly beloved. Last night, she went into fight with her brother and cause her to be so angry and losing her stand of emotion, I was trying to cool her down but I failed to do so, I can just walk away without knowing anything but I didn't b'coz I care about her feel... still I have to let her alone in her room.

During the time I out of her room, I start to think of what if I am the one who make her angry and she refuse to accept my apologies? What shall I do to comfort her and return to her stand without any scar left between us... seems like this is quite impossible, whenever there's a fight happened, each of us will be in deeply hurts. Still, I really want her to be happy with me, so I have to do my best to her... still, I'm getting worry about my capabilities to overcome them... mistakes are making more and more when I'm tired...

I making myself tired to help my family and hers, I wish someone could help me out too... whenever my feet is losing stand.

第一次带女朋友回家

自从出外读书、工作后，来来回回许多次的周末，我都一人出入家里，
可是这周末很不同，我第一次带着女朋友回家！

记得妹妹刚说要结婚时，妈妈就开始要求我主动认识女生 :S
当时的我只是敷衍的回答了妈妈，可今天会实现妈妈所期盼的女朋友到家里，
我本身当然很开心，同时也很紧张毕竟我也不知道妈妈会说什么，
不过我很相信她有魅力让我父母喜欢她，最后她们也见面了，很自然的第一次见面 \(^o^)/

原本没有计划要回家的妹妹却突变的回到家里和妈妈庆祝中秋节，
也形成了我们今年有三对情侣一同庆祝团圆，
爸爸也很高兴的点了8道菜6个人一起吃得很饱，（爸爸也太兴奋了，从来都没有点这么多菜还是重口味的）
也许今年是很快乐的一年，我们两兄妹在感情上都有升级了所以爸爸很开心。

也如此无意间，她也安排在我的房间里头过夜，
这也算我们第一次在同个房间里... 同一张床上... 度过了一晚
哈哈 不过可别误会！我们可是清白的

隔天我们也一同吃点心，一同看看我小时候读书的学校，一同陪妹妹看嫁妆，一同和我许久不见的旧同学见面，之后也一同回到KL了。
这周里我们一同在一起的时光可以说，真的从早到晚见面还见了一周呢（希望我们都能如此这样下去）
这趟回到马六甲，真的很开心也很快乐，我希望能去到她的家乡或旅行去到有意义的地方，好让我们能享受我们曾经度过的童年与时光，看看以前的我们和现在的我们。

p.s. 其实说来也很不好意思，竟然从她父母的结婚周年庆时，带走了他们的女儿到我家去，看来当他母亲生日时、不能马虎了（毕竟她也让到我妈妈过了一个很开心的生日）

住在她家的周日

这一周我终于加入了她的一家，
早上大家一同去上班，
下午大家一同回家去。

开始时，我住在弟弟的房间... 之后呢？
没错，我听不见闹钟的响声反而吵醒了弟弟，让到弟弟无法好好休息 :(
我也主动的提出 就让我当厅长，大大的客厅就成了我的房间了

赖皮的我，每晚还是会去她房间看看她和她聊天（虽说我们已经一天到晚都在见面了 但我还是很想见她！）
这周里我的出现也许会对她家产生莫名的气氛，渐渐的感觉大家都习惯了我的出现了。
希望我不会在她家闹出什么大件事吧... 被她整家人当笑话说就不好了 :S